“Oh no, we understand. You like men. You just like them to look a certain way and behave a certain way… Bearded, musician, successful arty types who have a great relationship with their mothers.” Gay male says with sarcasm dripping from every syllable. Me: “But…Well, we all do, right?” Beautiful 23 year old man: “It’s the female version of misogyny. Misanderism. The hatred or dislike of males.”…